I met my wife Karen the day I graduated from college, and after a previous broken engagement, I was cautious about marriage, leading me to break up with her multiple times before finally proposing. Despite warnings about the difficulties of the first year of marriage, our early years were wonderful until a crisis hit in year 14, which we managed to overcome. At one point, I became controlling and critical of Karen, culminating in a harsh confrontation that made her cry and made me realize I needed to change. I decided to let Karen be herself, which brought back the woman I fell in love with, teaching me that allowing your spouse to be themselves is crucial for a happy marriage.

Moving can be a daunting experience, especially for those of us who loathe the process. My wife, Karen, and I lived in the same home for nearly 30 years until our landlord decided to sell. The move was devastating. In the 12th chapter of Genesis, Abraham faces a similar challenge at age 75 when God instructs him to leave everything he knows and move to an unknown land. Unlike us, Abraham had no clear directions—only the promise of God's blessing. His faith earned him a place in the Hall of Faith, and despite the uncertainty, he stayed hopeful by looking forward to God's eternal city. Moving pushes us out of our comfort zones, but it's often when God does His greatest work. So, take heart—God is guiding us all towards something greater.

After a challenging period at Pacific Life Church due to staff shortages, my wife Karen and I took a much-needed vacation to New Mexico, feeling exhausted but returning refreshed and blessed after ten days. Not all vacations are equal; some can leave you more tired than before. Reflecting on Moses' busy life and God's commandment to rest in Exodus, I realized true rest comes from God, not just from vacations or activities. I encourage everyone planning a summer vacation to invite God into their time off for a deeper, more meaningful refreshment.

In a recent reflection, I shared a moment where I felt pressured to retire at a certain age, despite feeling capable and willing to continue. Approaching 70, I discussed retirement with a friend who suggested I still had much to offer. This prompted me to pray for guidance and reconsider my plans, recalling the wisdom of Proverbs 3:5-6. I realized the importance of trusting God's timing over societal expectations or personal pressures, emphasizing that age should not dictate our life decisions. My advice: learn from life's lessons and seek God's direction rather than conforming to others' expectations.